Happy Birthday, to the best DAD
Father's have always been underrated. We have always had
so much written about mothers and their love and their sacrifices; we have
always kind of over shadowed the father's. Every time I see an extremely
philosophical quote about a mothers love; I instantly remember my dad as well.
Because a father's love is also as pure and as sacrificial as that of a mother’s.
My memories of my dad are all good ones. Honestly, not one
bad memory I have. He has always been the man who has showered me with extreme
love, affection and care.
When I was a baby, I would never let him go to office.
Every morning as he left from home, I would start crying & screaming at the
top of my lungs. So much that he had to come back up, play with me, maybe put
me to sleep or distract me and then go to office. & This happened every
single time. You see, I have always been extremely fond of dad since the very
beginning.
As I grew up, dad and I became the closest. He would
always play with me, make me laugh, bring me chocolates and do whatever he
could to make me happy.
I don't remember who taught me how to walk but I sure
remember that dad taught me how to ride a bicycle. He was so patient with me.
He would hold the cycle and run behind it, for hours until I learned to ride it
properly. Every time I fell down, he would come pick me up, say it's okay and
then would prompt me to start riding again. Maybe that's why I don't give up so
easily even today. Probably cuz in those cycle sessions, I knew no matter how
many times I fail at a task, dad would always be there to pick me up, tell me
it's okay and help me start afresh.
When I was in school, probably 1st std, dad wanted me to
learn swimming. So we enrolled for a swimming class. I never really liked
swimming to be honest but I went. I was also good at it; dad was my coach. But
one fine Sunday as we went to the pool, dad casually said, "there is more
water today"; and I freaked out. I threw a tantrum right there and refused
to even step into the pool area. Dad got really angry & took me back home
and punished me. It was a normal punishment to be honest; he made me stand on
the high platform from where I couldn't get down- which was kinda funny really.
But I still say this to him every single time and every single time he feels so
bad about it.
When I was in school, I had a habit of drinking bournvita
eevery night. & I always wanted it from dad. Even if he would be late from
office, I would wait for him to come back, be it 10 or 12 and I would have it
only from him. Now though I do not have bournvita, I still always wait for dad
to come back home, and have dinner together, no matter how late he gets.
Kids are usually scared of their father in comparison to
their mothers. Not me. I have never been scared of dad. He has always been the
most sweetest, the most gentlest and the most caring man I have ever seen in
life. For me he has always been the one who would listen to me, always pamper
me a lot, who always gave me a free hand at everything I ever wanted to do.
This one time I was going away for merely 2 days to mom's
native and I still remember he cried at the station. Because he wasn’t going to
see me for a whole 2 days. Like literally cried there on the station. And this
has been till date. Whenever I have been away even for a single night, he has
cried. Always.
Whenever I was sick, he has always been there. Running
from doctor to doctor. Trying to make me feel better. Even when I have
something as mere as cramps, he won't let me even get up from my place. He'll
always hug me, pat my head, try to make me feel better. And honestly whenever I
am sick, having him close by does make me feel better.
When I was in school, he had an accident. A serious one.
We all went to the hospital and waited. As he was bought into the hospital from
the ambulance; I burst out crying. I had never seen dad like that. He had blood
all over and he couldn't walk properly and he had something tied across his
arm. I will never in my life forget that. He was rushed to the ICU. He was
almost passing out. But even in that, he called me inside the ICU and showed me
a thumb wishing me all the best; as it was my exam the next day.
He always accompanies me and my mom for my shopping. He
absolutely hates it of course, but he still comes. And I, even though never
take his choices in to consideration, always want him there.
One year in Diwali, I accidentally burnt my hair. My hair
caught fire on the diya and dad literally put off the fire with his bare hands.
Reflexively his 1st reaction wasn't to get water or even think about burning
his hand; but to save me. How do father's do that?
Last year I had a back problem and he was literally the
strongest support. He was more worried for me that I was. He sat with me the
entire time. He went to innumerable doctors even though he himself had fever.
But even in that all he could care about was making me feel better, thinking
about me and only me.
When I cleared my CS, he was so happy and so proud. As he
distributed sweets to people, I could really see him brimming with happiness
and pride. He had a pumped up chest and a smile so wide I can never forget. And
I really hope I can keep making him proud in the future as well. Really baba, I
won't ever let you down.
Even today, he keeps doing these small small things for
me. Whenever there is a new chocolate in the market, he will get it for me.
Even if I merely say "I feel like eating so & so"; his first
reaction is, "I'll go get it" no matter if it's 6 in the morning or
11 in the night. If I even feel a slight discomfort, he'll really get worried
and do whatever he can. He will give me his umbrella and get drenched himself,
even though he catches cold easily. He will always make me walk from the inside
of the road. He will immediately exchange plates the moment I even mention that
I don't like my ordered food. He will always come to drop me or pick me up, the
moment I call, no matter what he is doing, even if he is having dinner or is on
an important call. There was this one time where we ordered a falooda with ice
cream and I couldn't really eat it bcuz of the ice cream so I said I don't want
it; but he knew why and he actually fed it to me.
From as long as I can remember, he has been there for me.
Through thick and thin. Always giving me the support I needed, whenever I
needed him. Never once in my life I had
to worry about any pressures because I knew he would always support me. And he has.
He has always since forever supported me in all my dreams, all my ambitions. He
has always motivated me to get what I wanted, always helped me realise that I
can achieve whatever I set my mind to. Because he would always be there. Even
if all bets are down, I know he will always be there.
I have never in my life seen a man better than my dad. The
means and extents he goes to just to put a smile across my face, who wouldn't
care a tini tiny bit about the world if it comes across my happiness. Though
mom has taught me a lot of things and I call her my teacher in a way, dad has
also been one. He has taught me far greater things.
I wish I could stay with my dad forever. Not to mention, the perfect man that he is, always has been; he has set really strong standards. Whenever I meet a guy I try to look for parts of my dad in him. But no guy can ever be as amazing a man as my dad. He really is the best there can ever be. & even though I never admit it as often as dad does, it terrifies me as well thinking about living away from him after marriage.
I probably don't say it as much as I should but I really
love you baba. You are my best friend, my strongest support, like a rock. I
might not express it as much as I should but I really care for u, a lot. &
You mean the world to me. & I really really hope that I keep making you
proud and happy. I really wish I do make you happy even now. You are one of the
best person in my life and I cannot even imagine not having you around, or not
having your support ever. Please always be with me, just like you have always
been and I'll be the happiest girl in the world. Since a kid, I have trusted
you to catch me when you threw me up in the air, and I’ll always trust you with
my life, forever.
And honestly thank you. Thank you for everything that u
have done. But you'll have to keep doing those things cuz I'll always need you.
HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
Love you loads.
You're the best.